Warnemunde, Germany |
A couple of days ago, I listened to an Anthony Robbins recording. While he may not be as controversial as gay marriage, he certainly is admired and followed by many and considered a blowhard joke by others. I proudly fall into the former category, because I think he makes very strong points, even if my efforts in lofty professions like screenwriting and album producing have resulted in dismal financial flops rather than amazing success stories as his client testimonials claim.
Darlene, Dad, Wes and Mom |
"Wrong," he said. If you make a poor effort, you get NO reward. If you think about that, it is completely true. And whereas if you're the only one doing something, an excellent or even good effort might result in great success, in looking at the highly competitive world in the 21st century, I have to agree with his next three observations too:
Laszlo, Gina, Amy, Jay and Julie |
Excellent Effort: Good Reward
Outstanding Effort: All the Rewards Possible
As Tony observed, that's why someone comes up to him at a seminar and says he doesn't understand why his wife left him when he was a good husband. What the "good" husband believed in his heart should yield good results instead gave him a poor reward: divorce. The hard pill to swallow is that he did get the reward he earned.
Most of the boys in my neighborhood growing up would have loved their dads to spend more time playing sports with them. I know I did. The exceptions were the Rungo boys. Mr. Rungo devoted a lot of time to playing sports with his three sons, and the last time I saw him, right after my mom's death, he was still very close with them. I'm not sure about his efforts with his wife, because despite knowing him for 50 years, I never saw his wife come out of the house, but without question he was rich with love and quite happy.
Uncles Bob, Herb & Leroy, Aunts Pete & Delmae, Dad |
as my sister observed a few days ago, we really were fortunate to have the perfect mom and dad for us. We were lucky to have grown up in really an ideal situation in a great place, Westminster, California. We had very happy childhoods, including summer trips where we would drive across country to see landmarks and visit extended family members.
Copenhagen, Denmark |
Just as we now accept a world with microwaves and cell phones, American families should recognize the breakthroughs in family travel afforded by the ever-growing cruise industry. For the price of staying home to entertain out-of-town visitors or be the visiting family ourselves, we can see the world from a floating resort. While you may scoff at that, you should re-consider what you actually spend on a road trip or even a "staycation."
If your family is strapped for money, I don't advise taking a cruise. Get your financial house in order and enjoy small activities at home, like a family meal or walk along the beach together. Even if you have the means to travel, you shouldn't ignore the day-to-day special moments at home.
But if you have the means, and from what I can tell many people find themselves better off than ever, why not make an outstanding effort for your family vacation travel?
While my poor marketing and outreach efforts may condemn my artistic endeavors to failure, I can definitely say that I have reaped rich rewards from my family efforts, including with regard to my own travel. Tony must be very proud.
Better service leads to better trips!
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